13 People Share What They Believe Are the Biggest Red Flags When Meeting New People
While first impressions aren’t always accurate, sometimes they are. Sometimes, through experience, people start to understand what to look out for when they meet someone new.
Reddit users answered the question “What’s the biggest red flag when meeting new people?” The answers are enlightening. Scroll down for 13 examples of red flags when meeting someone for the first time.
Tries Too Hard
Reddit user Gleapglop wrote:
“One of my bosses once told me that whenever you start a new job/position uts usually the first person who tries really hard to be your friend is the problem child of the office. They’ll usually start telling you of people to avoid as well. I’ve found this very very useful.”
Putting Your Interests Down
Reddit user scott wrote:
“When you mention something you enjoy and they immediately put it down “I enjoy going on photography walks around citys” “That sounds really s**t” Ok well kindly get lost Mr/ Mrs Stranger.”
From Reddit user Saders_1609:
“They don’t listen to what you say and respond accordingly, they only wait for you to stop talking so they can talk about whatever they want to talk about.”
Can’t Keep Friends
“usually when people speak of having a lot of people in their life that somehow turned on them and now they don’t speak anymore. i remember one old coworker would become super fast friends with someone, then within weeks “yeah we dont really talk anymore” once, ill accept, hell even twice, but when its 4-5 times over…. guess what, its not everyone else”
It’s Just a Joke!
According to AdderWibble:
“Belittling their SO in front of people but insisting its a joke every time! Sadly in this situation I used to be the belittled SO.”
Wants to Borrow Money
“When you barely know them and they act like your best friend….then later ask to borrow money.”
Pay Attention to Me
“They don’t really listen to you or pay attention to what you’re talking about, but expect you to be totally engaged with whatever they say and act put out if you aren’t.”
Advice from Back2Bach:
“When they’re judgmental and critical of others, but never of themselves.”
Get Rich Quick Schemes
According to Tleilaxu:
“When they start talking about the tons of money I am going to be making with their new business venture in selling knives door to door.”
“I have only ever met 2 men (that I’m aware of) who lied to me about their ages when we met. Both of these men turned out to be extremely unpleasant and abusive people (I dated one of them and knew the gf of the other one). I think people who lie easily even over trivial things tend to have very complex psychological problems and are best steered clear of.”
Trying to One Up You
“When they try to one up you in everything you say.”
My Life Is So Hard!
“When the first thing they tell you about themselves is all the hardship and unfairness in their lives…”
Sharing Too Much Information
“Too much information too quickly. People who divulge too much about themselves from the offset generally have poor boundary issues.”